Wednesday, December 7, 2022

12-7-2022: HAPPY B'DAY TO SOMEONE WE LOVE...

                                                                           


You'll always be the baby of the family no matter how old you become !!!


We hope tonight's dinner celebration gives

you many happy memories!

 



                December of '93 is just a blurry memory...

Monday, November 28, 2022

JINGLE ALL THE WAY: FASTER, FASTER!!!

                                                                         


 Once the last vestige of turkey leftovers make their way to the garbage disposal or trash can at the curb, the Christmas holiday preparations REALLY begin to gather SPEED... twinkling lights are ubiquitous; spruce, pine and fir trees stand at the ready: prearranged green-needle soldiers in sundry neighborhood lots. Sporting branches of supple emerald, they wait to be plucked up and carefully placed on vehicle roof-racks. Later, one can imagine they simply beam like the brightest north star while being adorned with ornament jewels and vivid ruby roping...








That said, over-the-top holiday mania is not entirely healthy. The amygdala in our brain gets over-stressed by the mental riding crop urging individuals to go 'faster, faster' in order to get 'more, more'. The FOMO mantra certainly needs a measure of quieting...


True, some can 'run faster' than others but if we spur our brain beyond its cognitive comfort zone, "bad things" can happen...


Mental exhaustion can be seen in real-time via the modality of fMRI. Not only that, over-taxed adrenal glands eventually hurl one into the gaping mouth of depression. Allen Ginsberg's poem HOWL begins as such: "I saw the best minds of my generation destroyed by madness". It goes on to rant about individuals "dragging themselves" at dawn, searching for their "angry fix" of heroin. Too much but never enough ?


Yet, there most definitely ARE some quotes that express what the upcoming holiday season SHOULD bring to mind:

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"As we struggle with shopping lists and invitations, compounded by December's bad weather, it is good to be reminded that there are people in our lives who are worth this aggravation, and people to whom we are worth the same."     - Donald E. Westlake

"May your walls know joy, may every room hold laughter, and every window open to great possibility."      - Mary Anne Radmacher

"Sharing the holiday with other people, and feeling that you’re giving of yourself, gets you past all the commercialism."    - Caroline Kennedy

"The joy of brightening other lives, bearing each others' burdens, easing others' loads and supplanting empty hearts and lives with generous gifts becomes for us the magic of the holidays."    - W. C. Jones

"The holiest of holidays are those kept by ourselves in silence and apart; The secret anniversaries of the heart."    - Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Friday, November 11, 2022

THANK YOU... to the nth degree

 


LAND  OF  THE  FREE BECAUSE  OF 

     THE  BRAVE !!!

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There's also another thing for which I'm ever grateful:

as well as free and fair elections...


 "Democracy is the dent in the tall hat"


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... and on 11-11-1903, my maternal grandmother came into this world; 21 years later [to the day!] she would celebrate her wedding...


Friday, October 21, 2022

Each little 'leaf hint' offers insight into the grand composite

                                                     



of who YOU are...

simply because of who THEY were!

Yet, without the little tidbits that my parents (and other relatives) dropped over the years, I would likely not have been as successful as I have been in stitching together my own ancestral tapestry...




Why would someone NOT want to know their background?





       But one group I'll never lay claim to: the three witches !!!

Monday, October 10, 2022

FUNNY THE THINGS THAT COME TO MIND

 when recollecting things

 a deceased parent has said in the past

Today, 10/10 is my late mother's birthday...

and I can see that HER grandmother passed the day after, many years ago

Well, I finally did the requisite genealogy on the Busch line to confirm that we're shirt-tail relatives of the Busch Garden folks... it all comes down to an Ulrich Busch! Wow, did he sire a lot of children !!

[Well you had said that, didn't you?]




Hello Williamsburg !!!