Was 'the story'
Worth printing
In light of the grief?
[The latter which followed,
To our disbelief...]
Just a random array of thoughts, opinions, and the occasional whimsical (or not quite so whimsical!) rambling...
Was 'the story'
Worth printing
In light of the grief?
[The latter which followed,
To our disbelief...]
“Never
throughout history has a man who lived a life of ease
left a name worth remembering.”
"The brave die never, though they sleep in dust, their courage nerves a thousand living men.” -Minot J. Savage
...and on a totally different note, a
Happy [slightly belated] Birthday Wish to my sister-in-law who recently celebrated
a milestone...
"Those
were the days, my friend; we'd thought they'd never end !!!
What I said almost a year ago still holds true today...
A TOAST FROM A PARENTAL PERSPECTIVE: When
a child is born and they hand you that little bundle, the first time you
look into their tiny, trusting face it's only natural to want to give them
everything, to promise them the world... and so you whisper into their ear: "The
Best is Yet to Come"...Yet, with the passage of time, you realize just how
much wisdom needs to be passed on
such that they best achieve their
goals and evolving dreams in the lengthy journey toward adulthood.
Ryan and
Alison, your very presence here tonight signifies your successful segue into
responsible adulthood but it's truly more than that: it represents a facet of
the so-called CIRCLE OF LIFE... To me, circles
are the perfect symbol of 'completeness'...like a ring, there are
no broken lines in their form... and "completeness" is a good thing,
particularly in a relationship...
In the late 1890s, a well-known poet, Elizabeth Barrett Browning, wrote a famous poem that focused on 'completeness'. In fact, back in the 70s I had a poster above my bed bearing her salient words:
I love you not only for what you are
But for what I AM when I am with you...
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself,
But for what you are making of me...
And... I love you for the part of ME
that you bring out...[for you complete me]...
Browning's
sentiments clearly emphasize the significance of completeness in a
relationship, but they likewise invoke 'a generosity of spirit',
and this brings me to some cherished wishes I'd like to share with Ryan and Alison:
May you always need one another...
(Not
so much to fill your own emptiness,
but to appreciate what true fulfillment really is...)
May
you always 'lean on' one another, as well,
(Yet,
never out of weakness, but of selfless reciprocity)...
May
you embrace one another,
(
but not in a manner that encloses, stifles, or suffocates)
Most
importantly, may your happiness be strongly amplified by charity,
AS
WELL AS ALWAYS
(by) making ONE ANOTHER happy
!!!
In closing...
The little boy (who once played) is now a bride groom,
The little girl (her parent's once carried) is now a lovely bride;
As witnesses
to their wedded vows just recited,
We, [friends/family]
stood by their side...
So, Bless
the sacred rings around their fingers,
Bless their
marriage as man and wife,
Share in their new-journey this evening,
[And 3
CHEERS for The Circle of Life...]
Ryan and Alison : "May The Best Be Yet
To Come !!! "
May Day's Now Past
The sweet
glare of dawn-break
Adorns
the morning dew;
There's a
balmy blanket of countless hues arising...
Violet tulips trade tepid daffodils, one by one, as
Greens grow more verdant and the overhead
Leaf-canopy gradually grows more lush...
The garden beds rejoice;
The fat
robins fetch an extra voice;
The spring's azure light gathers 'round
Speckled
nests containing open mouths;
And while
we watch in utter wonder,
There's a
certain niggling question:
What took so long ???
poem by L.P.-G.